How to impress without doing any work

By rickColosimo / February 14, 2011 / Comments Off on How to impress without doing any work

Sparked by a conversation with someone who has Netflix but claims the DVD player doesn’t work: FauxFlixster Someone who has a Netflix queue but doesn’t watch DVDs After hearing that this had gone on for months, I became suspicious that it was just a ruse to somehow impress friends and others: is there a Facebook…

Room Service

By rickColosimo / February 11, 2011 / Comments Off on Room Service

Oatmeal with blueberries, fresh off the vine. The wrongest metaphor is pearls before swine. A stick of cinnamon in black coffee I see. Can I lick the raspberry jam off of your cheek? Tell me you miss me pretty please, and that someday you won’t cut me off at the knees. I’m miles away in…

Set people up for success

By rickColosimo / January 28, 2011 / Comments Off on Set people up for success

Ever feel like the deck was stacked against you, that your boss or wife or boyfriend had somehow made it impossible for you to succeed? In the Army, we called that being set up for failure. It sprouted from poor planning, from shirking responsibility, from deliberately withholding resources. (Some might say at this point that…

How to be a friend

By rickColosimo / January 25, 2011 / Comments Off on How to be a friend

Seth wrote a nice post called “I’ve got your back.” It reminded me instantly of two very different posts I’ve written that are about the same thing: needing a ranger buddy and character. What do all of these have in common? On the one hand, they’re about trusting someone because that person is trustworthy and…